Well this was a lot harder than it should of been, the choices you get! Fear not though I found the one for me, the adventure theme as life can be an adventure! i changes the picture to one i took on my travels to Greece in Corfu. i also tried moving the layout about but i found that leaving the sidebar menu on the right hand side comments down the middle looked and felt the best.
i have installed two plugins one Visitor Stats to show how many people are looking at my blog, and i also installed simple social buttons so people can like or see a ink to my Facebook or tweeter account.
Till next time.